What is Age-Appropriate? Published in StopItNow It can be hard to acknowledge that all of us, even children, are sexual beings, have sexual feelings and are curious about sex and sexuality. Children’s curiosity can lead to exploring their own and each other’s body parts by looking and touching. They may peek when family members are in the bathroom […]

What is Age-Appropriate?

Published in StopItNow

It can be hard to acknowledge that all of us, even children, are sexual beings, have sexual feelings and are curious about sex and sexuality. Children’s curiosity can lead to exploring their own and each other’s body parts by looking and touching. They may peek when family members are in the bathroom or changing clothes or try to listen outside the bedroom. They may look at magazines, books, videos, and on the internet.

It can be hard to tell the difference between “normal” sexual behaviors and behaviors that are signs that a child may be developing a problem. Sexual play that is more typical or expected in children will more often have the following traits:

  • The sexual play is between children who have an ongoing mutually enjoyable play and/or school friendship.
  • The sexual play is between children of similar size, age, and social and emotional development.
  • It is lighthearted and spontaneous. The children may be giggling and having fun when you discover them.
  • When adults set limits (for example, children keep their clothes on at day care), children are able to follow the rules.

PRESCHOOL AGE (0 to 5 years)

Common:

Will have questions and express knowledge relating to:
• differences in gender, private body parts, 
• hygiene and toileting,
• pregnancy and birth.
Will explore genitals and can experience pleasure. 
Showing and looking at private body parts.

Uncommon:

• Having knowledge of specific sexual acts or explicit sexual language. 
• Engaging in adult-like sexual contact with other children.

SCHOOL-AGE (6-8 years)

Common:

Will need knowledge and have questions about
• physical development, relationships, sexual behavior
• menstruation and pregnancy,
• personal values. 
Experiment with same-age and same gender children, often during games or role-playing. 
Self stimulation in private is expected to continue.

Uncommon:

Adult-like sexual interactions, 
Having knowledge of specific sexual acts, 
Behaving sexually in a public place or through the use of phone or internet technology.

 
Adapted from Wurtele, S.K. and Miller-Perrin, C.L. Preventing Sexual Abuse. University of Nebraska Press. Lincoln, NE. 1992

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