ABOUT CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
In the United States, approximately 1 out of every 4 girls and 1 out of every 6 boys is sexually abused before the age 18. Seventy to 73% of child sexual…
Read moreIn its simplest form, child sexual abuse is a sexual encounter that occurs between a child and an older person (as children cannot legally consent to…
Read moreMyth: Child sexual abuse is a rare experience. Fact: Child sexual abuse is not rare. Retrospective research indicates that as many as 1 out…
Read moreDifferent survivors react to their experiences differently. This does not necessarily depend on what happened physically. A survivor who has been raped…
Read moreThis is something that confuses many people – if they’re not sexually attracted to children – why would they want to engage in sexual…
Read moreBy Phyllis Barkhurst Some time ago, I was talking with a 14-year-old boy, “Johnny”, who had been sexually abused by his uncle when he was…
Read moreUse the anatomically correct terms for private parts. Teach kids to use this language. Teach your child that it’s ok to say “no”…
Read moreA sex offender continually seeks ACCESS AND PRIVACY with their intended target as part of their manipulation and grooming process. In addition, there…
Read moreWhen interviewed, convicted child sex-offenders admitted to being very particular about the children they chose to abuse. They looked for children that…
Read moreWho is the typical child molester? I am probably well known and liked by you and your child. I can be a man or a woman, married or single. I can be a…
Read moreThey can be the most educated, the most good-looking, the rich, the do-gooders. Women and children too. Perhaps naturally, or even through media…
Read moreMany predatory abusers premeditate abuse, fantasize about sexual interaction with children, often view pornography or child pornography, select their…
Read moreWe may never have the exact answer what specifically drives offenders, and no two predators think and act alike. While pedophiles are specifically driven…
Read moreGroomers are patient. They’re often intelligent, friendly, and helpful. They don’t want to get caught – but they may push the limit…
Read moreThis is what you can look for to potentially identify grooming behaviors of sexual abusers of children. This applies not only to your children, but even…
Read moreIn most cases, abusers seek or take advantage of being in a position of trust in a one-on-one situation with a child: a bedroom, a bathroom, a car, a…
Read moreIncest is allowed to thrive when people lack the fortitude to accept that it exists. The attitude that it happens in “other” families but…
Read moreIt is hard to get solid statistical evidence to support just how often it happens because so many victims abused by women tell much less than those abused…
Read moreThis may be one of the biggest reality-checking curveballs regarding child sexual abuse: Who would have ever thought that up to 40% of abusers were older…
Read moreIt can be hard to acknowledge that all of us, even children, are sexual beings, have sexual feelings and are curious about sex and sexuality. Children’s…
Read more(Illustrative photo – not related to the story ) Republished from stopabusecampaign.com You don’t need to spend a lot of time catching up…
Read moreThere are a myriad of reasons why children don’t tell, but almost always, an abuser must mentally and emotionally brainwash a child in order to…
Read moreChildren Cannot Be Held Responsible For Their Own Safety Childhood should be about so many amazing things. Sure there will be trials and tribulations…
Read moreChild sexual abuse is largely an unwitnessed and often undetected crime. Research suggests that most cases of child sexual abuse are never disclosed to…
Read moreSome children show no signs of abuse. Most children will not tell. It is good parenting to check-in with our children and ask if anything inappropriate…
Read more“I cannot say enough words of caution to single women with children: do not allow the men you are dating to have access to your children……
Read moreThe pattern of targeting and grooming is of particular importance in relation to disabled children and as mainstream services become more vigilant, perpetrators…
Read moreThese are people whom we hold a level of respect for that may or may not work with children. We want to believe they are responsible, good, caring people.…
Read moreMany organizations may already have in place or are working to put into place a protocol for minimizing the sexual abuse of children. This mostly applies…
Read moreYou are obviously putting a great amount of responsibility into the hands of this person. They are alone in your home (or theirs) with your children.…
Read moreWhether it’s an established karate studio or an in-home piano teacher, there are things we can look for and require to make after school activities…
Read moreLet your house have an open-door policy when applicable. If it’s daytime and people are around the house – doors should be open if there…
Read moreGet to know the people in your neighborhood – if there are other parents with children, consider organizing an abuse prevention seminar from a local…
Read moreConsider how to protect your children when one-on-one activities occur when you are not home or outside the home. When two people are going out alone…
Read moreThe good news is stranger danger is not as common as you might think. While it is terrifying to think of our child being kidnapped, the vast majority…
Read moreRabbihorowitz.com Project Y.E.S. (Youth Enrichment Services). Rabbi Horowitz is recognized throughout the Jewish community as an authority…
Read moreGet Help For Your Family If you or someone you know has further questions about a situation in their family or community, please check out our Online…
Read moreRemind your children every month or two what you have taught them. Use real-life examples to explain what you mean. A child that understands that Mommy…
Read moreSexual abuse is often confusing for a child. Abusers often manipulate children by making them feel that this is a loving interaction, that it is normal.…
Read moreThe moment a child discloses abuse will most likely be remembered as one of the toughest moments of their life. It is our job to make it as easy as possible…
Read moreWhile we can never guarantee that our children will have the fortitude to escape a bad situation (especially when abusers are often people they know &…
Read moreWhile many use the term “monster” to describe sexual abusers – they do not usually come into the life of their victim formed as such.…
Read moreWe’ve probably all experienced a moment where we were around someone or in a situation and had an uneasy feeling, usually in our stomach. We could…
Read moreEven convicted abusers have admitted being surprised by how easy it was to get a child to keep their abuse a secret. Secrecy is, obviously, essential…
Read moreLet your children know they are not allowed to accept gifts, money, or special favors without asking a parent first. It can be confusing for a child…
Read moreIf someone threatens them, or does something that they feel is wrong or makes them uncomfortable, you want them to tell you. You will be proud of them…
Read moreYou may fear this question, but can you blame them for being curious? Young children 3-6 years will most likely be OK with simply being told that the…
Read moreBefore you know it, your child will figure out that boys and girls are different in more ways than one. They may see you dressing/toileting, or watch…
Read moreWe brush our teeth and use floss, but sometimes a big person has to help. Sometimes they might have a hair or piece of food stuck in their mouth…
Read moreBy example, teach your children that “no” will be respected if they do not want to be touched (ex. tickling, hugging, or kissing). If your…
Read moreA child is sometimes forced to sit on the lap of an adult for that “memorable” photo of them screaming & squirming. It’s…
Read moreSometimes it is necessary for a person to touch or look your child’s private parts. When you’re changing a diaper, applying cream, washing…
Read moreChildren thrive on structure at a very early age. Just like scheduling naps, bedtime routines, timeouts, teaching manners etc. Children want to know what…
Read moreIf you’re teaching your baby the names of body parts, by all means start now to say the proper name for their genitalia. “Penis” is…
Read moreRepublished from wesurviveabuse.com How do good parents miss child sexual abuse? It is simply by not asking the right questions. One day my son went to…
Read moreEstablish a Body Safety Circle! While we may assume our children will come to us first if they need help, realistically, we need to accept that…
Read moreWhile abusers may attempt to bribe young children with toys or candy, when it involves older children it can become more complex. Let your children know…
Read morePick a simple word or phrase that your child can use to communicate to you that they’re feeling uncomfortable or unsafe but can’t say it.…
Read moreThe idea that kids should never talk to strangers, can actually put them at greater risk if they should find themselves in a situation where they are…
Read moreMost professionals agree that we need to explain puberty and sexual intercourse to our children. It may be to your advantage to explain it sooner rather…
Read moreThe characteristics of bullying and sexual abuse perpetrated by minors is often similar: A positive attitude toward violence A need to dominate others,…
Read moreSibling abuse is suggested to be one of the most under-reported forms of child sexual abuse. Although there is limited data on the prevalence of it, the…
Read more“It is important that your child know that as thinking, conscious human beings we have the opportunity to think about how to deal with our own arousal…
Read moreDon’t assume your children know right from wrong – make sure of it. Let your child know that sexual abuse is a crime. This might seem obvious,…
Read moreAll children crave love, affection, and attention. They need to know that they are special and appreciated. Abusers know this, and use it to their advantage…
Read moreWe must raise children to respect all life. We cannot pick and choose which people/things deserve better treatment than others, it must be understood…
Read moreBeing a good person isn’t just about not hurting others; it’s about helping others. Your child may witness or suspect abuse of another child,…
Read moreResearch has shown that the human brain does not complete developing until our 20s and 30s. The frontal lobe, the part of the brain that manages…
Read moreComputers belong in common areas, not bedrooms. Educate yourself on setting appropriate filters for explicit images/language for your computer. Explain…
Read moreFrom The Sex-Wise Parent author, Janet Rosenzweig: “A major study found that almost all boys and two-thirds of girls over age…
Read more“It is important that your child know that as thinking, conscious human beings we have the opportunity to think about how to deal with our own arousal…
Read moreWhether it’s babysitting, scooping ice cream, or doing some office work for a business owner (even if the employer is family or a family friend),…
Read moreRunaways and at-risk youth are targeted by pimps and traffickers for exploitation in the commercial sex industry or different labor or services industries.…
Read moreHow will I know if someone is having suicidal thoughts? People who are thinking about suicide often give clues that they are having suicidal thoughts.…
Read moreIf you are currently thinking about suicide, please reach out for help! Talk to someone you trust. – Do you have a friend or relative that…
Read moreCaveat: The following descriptions are meant to serve as a general guideline for how a victim of sexual assault might react in a time of pain or crisis.…
Read moreUnderstanding the Impact Survivors of childhood sexual abuse experience an array of overwhelming and intense feelings. These may include feelings…
Read moreVictims of rape or sexual assault may turn to alcohol or other substances in an attempt to relieve their emotional suffering. In the U.S., victims…
Read moreMany survivors of sexual assault suffer from depression and/or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). As a result, they may also experience…
Read moreAfter a traumatic event, it is typical to have feelings of anxiety, stress, or fear, making it difficult to adjust or cope for some time afterwards. In…
Read moreDescribed as a victim’s emotional “bonding” with their abuser, Stockholm Syndrome was given its name following a hostage situation…
Read moreDeliberate self-harm, or self-injury, is when a person inflicts physical harm on himself or herself, usually in secret. Some victims of sexual assault…
Read moreThere are many emotional and psychological reactions that victims of rape and sexual assault can experience. One of the most common of these is depression.…
Read moreA flashback is when memories of past traumas feel as if they are taking place in the current moment. Many survivors of sexual violence experience these…
Read moreBorderline Personality Disorder, known as BPD, is one of many possible long-term effects of childhood sexual abuse. Research by the Psychiatric Clinics…
Read moreThese maladies are often called “psychosomatic symptoms” which does not, as many people think, mean that it is “in your head.”…
Read moreEating disorders are complex conditions that arise from a combination of long-standing emotional, psychological, interpersonal and social issues.…
Read moreMost mental health practitioners believe that dissociation exists on a continuum. At one end of the continuum, are instances of dissociation that many…
Read moreDo you know a child or adolescent who is: Confused about social rules and interactions? May experience typical gestures of friendliness or affection as…
Read moreWhat Protective Adults Need to Know About 85% of children who are sexually abused never tell, or delay telling, about the abuse. The closer the relationship…
Read moreIf Child Custody Is At Stake If you are a parent and the person you suspect is your spouse or ex-spouse or your ex-spouses’ partner, and child custody…
Read moreBreakdown Of The Investigation Process: Child Interview Medical Exam Non-offending Parent Interview Interview with the Alleged Offender Risk Assessment…
Read moreTrust Being a victim of sexual abuse can have a devastating effect on a child’s object relations, particularly the ability to trust other people.…
Read moreKids feel confused Consider that the child may have wanted to tell about the abuse but felt trapped, or threatened either by what they were told would…
Read moreDebra Byrne reads Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept. The book is aimed at 3-12 year old children and is intended to give them skills to deal with…
Read moreA video with puppets demonstrating the distinction between good touch and bad touch for children.
Read more1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys are sexually abused by their 18th birthday. We can change that. 93% of the abuse is someone known to the child and…
Read moreCautious Twins – How a boy and girl go to the store for Mom, and are correctly cautious with strangers. Learn the steps to prevent and help…
Read moreThis is the last of our three-part “Child Safety On-the-Fly” mini-video series which can help you learn and then convey the critical…
Read moreThis is the second of our three-part “Child Safety On-the-Fly” mini-video series which can help you learn and then convey the critical…
Read moreThis is part one of our three-part “Child Safety On-the-Fly” mini-video series which can help you learn and then convey the critical…
Read morePart of a lecture series about child sexual abuse by Rabbi Chaim Itche Drizin, MA, LMFT.
Read morePart of a lecture series about child sexual abuse by Rabbi Chaim Itche Drizin, MA, LMFT.
Read morePart of a lecture series about child sexual abuse by Rabbi Chaim Itche Drizin, MA, LMFT.
Read moreA parenting workshop by Rabbi Yakov Horowitz, Director of The Center for Jewish Family Life’s Project YES & dean of Yeshiva Darchei Noam…
Read moreThis manual is designed to help survivors of child sexual abuse. It updates the first edition, and investigates all the effects of child sexual abuse,…
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Read moreMany midwives will care for women who are survivors of childhood sexual abuse (CSA), whether these women disclose this or not. Pregnant and birthing women…
Read moreWhen Survivors Give Birth provides survivors and their maternity caregivers with extensive information on the prevalence and short- and long-term…
Read moreAngela Williams truly breaks the silence in her courageous account of her incredible journey to freedom from the shame of childhood sexual abuse. The…
Read moreOriginally published two decades ago, The Sexual Healing Journey is a highly respected resource for understanding and healing the intimate sexual problems…
Read moreSurvivors of sexual assault often suffer from symptoms of depression, substance abuse, an eating disorder, panic and anxiety, or posttraumatic stress…
Read moreThe Courage to Heal is an inspiring, comprehensive guide that offers hope and a map of the healing journey to every woman who was sexually abused as a…
Read moreThe first encouraging, sex-positive guide for all women survivors of sexual assault who want to reclaim their sex lives. While most books on the topic…
Read moreThe Sex-Wise Parent is the one book every parent needs to help them raise a sexually safe and healthy child. From choosing the first baby sitter to monitoring…
Read moreAll parents face the same challenges when it comes to their children’s safety: whom to trust, whom to distrust, what to believe, what to doubt,…
Read moreWhat motivates sexual abusers? Why are so few caught? Drawing on the stories of abusers, Anna C. Salter shows that sexual predators use sophisticated…
Read moreThis book covers the disturbing issues of incest and child sexual abuse, the greatest hidden epidemic in America. Readers get information about recognizing…
Read moreIn an effort to raise children with a healthy view of themselves, parents often focus on self-esteem rather than self-respect. Author…
Read moreResearcher and thought leader Dr. Brené Brown offers a powerful new vision that encourages us to dare greatly: to embrace vulnerability and imperfection,…
Read moreMaterials developed for the prevention effort include a free Gate Keepers for Kids brochure, a practical guide to make your organization…
Read moreA step-by-step guide for parents and carers on how to protect children from sexual abuse through Personal Safety Education. This guide contains simple,…
Read moreShoop identifies the early warning signs of sexual abuse in schools, demonstrating the critical need to implement strategies so students are protected…
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Read moreOn Amazon.com Sections of this page have been adapted by TheMamaBearEffect
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Read moreBased on in-depth interviews and her workshops for partners across the country, Laura Davis offers practical advice and encouragement to all partners—girlfriends,…
Read moreThis book is written for couples (or individuals) who are facing healing the effects of the wounds of childhood sexual abuse on their relationships. It…
Read moreBoth informative and highly practical, Murphey helps women understand the continuing problems that abuse survivors may encounter, including hurtful memories,…
Read moreThis is a book for the silent sufferers – the millions of men worldwide who are helping female partners recover from the trauma of childhood sexual…
Read morePreSchool-Grade 2. This book is positive and assertive without being frightening. It lets young children know that it’s all right for them to choose…
Read moreUsing rhyming text, My Body Belongs To Me teaches young readers to recognize sexual abuse and molestation, to tell a parent or authority figure if they…
Read moreSome Secrets Should Never Be Kept is a beautifully illustrated picture book that sensitively broaches the subject of keeping our children safe from inappropriate…
Read moreSiblings Katie and her little brother Kyle learn about personal safety, private parts, and “thumbs up & thumbs down” touches by talking…
Read moreWritten from a kids point of view, I Said No! makes this task a lot easier. To help Zack cope with a real-life experience he had with a friend, he and…
Read moreJulie, who is eight or nine, talks about privacy and about saying “no” to touching that makes her uncomfortable. Order through Amazon…
Read more“Mom, where do babies come from?” Many parents live in fear of the day their child asks that question—which inevitably happens, often…
Read moreYoung children are curious about almost everything, especially their bodies. And young children are not afraid to ask questions. What makes me a girl?…
Read moreThrough simple prose and vivid illustrations, this heartwarming book encourages positive behavior as children see how rewarding it is to express daily…
Read moreThe Wesley’s World Series of books are dedicated to helping parents and children learn the essentials of personal safety. Most of us draw on…
Read moreWhen Emily asks her big sister what the word empathy means, Emily has no idea that knowing the answer will change how she looks at people. But does it…
Read moreThe official Rise and Shine Movement website is online. Via the website you can watch the FREE book, “Rise and Shine: A Tool for the Prevention…
Read moreWritten and illustrated by a young girl who was sexually molested by a family member, this book reaches out to other children in a way that no adult can.…
Read more(available in English, Yiddish, and Hebrew) Order on Amazon Sections on this page have been adapted from TheMamaBearEffect
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Read more(available in English and Hebrew, based on a book by Saul and Judith Gordon) Sections on this page have been adapted from TheMamaBearEffect
Read moreAfter Sherman sees something terrible happen, he becomes anxious and then angry, but when a counselor helps him talk about these emotions he feels better.…
Read moreThis innovative book combines a therapeutic story with a variety of activities to help children cope with sexual abuse and complex trauma. Therapeutic…
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